Question - Gurudev, can I live with full freedom? Many times my freedom becomes a problem for another especially in the case of my family and friends. Please guide me what to do in such situations.
Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankarji - Yes, you should see that your freedom should not create trouble for someone else. You should take a middle path. If you always focus your attention on others, at some point you will feel frustrated, and if you think only of yourself, you will cause frustration to others. So somewhere along the line you need to take a middle path, take some and give some. Suppose you feel like doing meditation and somebody else wants you do their work, it is okay to do their work if it is an emergency. But if it is not very important, it is just a daily routine thing, then do your meditation, take out time for yourself.
A thoughtful question and a wise answer!
Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankarji offers a balanced perspective on living with full freedom while considering the needs of others:
1. Ensure your freedom doesn't create trouble for others, especially family and friends.
2. Take a middle path, finding a balance between your needs and others' needs.
3. Avoid excessive focus on others, as this can lead to frustration.
4. Don't prioritize only yourself, as this can cause frustration for others.
5. Find a balance, "take some and give some".
6. Prioritize emergencies over routine tasks.
7. Make time for self-care and personal growth, like meditation.
He emphasizes the importance of balancing personal freedom with responsibility towards others. By taking a middle path, we can maintain healthy relationships and nurture our own growth.
May you find guidance in Gurudev's words and may your journey of self-discovery and freedom be harmonious and balanced!
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