In pain and problem which is why he is not able to communicate with me or anyone. What do I do?

Question - Gurudev, I try communicating with my father, I try to talk to him but he acts freaky. He gets high and creates chaos. I do not know what to do and how to communicate with him. I know he is in lot of pain and problem which is why he is not able to communicate with me or anyone. What do I do?

Gurudev Sri Sri - Win him over with love. You know sometime you should walk the same path as the ones who create chaos and then slowly make them understand and change. Just do this, do not oppose him for two days and do whatever he says. Give him so much love that he will melt. Did you understand? Did you get what I mean? Have you tried this way?

(Devotee - Gurudev, I have tried talking to him but it does not work) Talking is not good, have you asked him, 'Papa, what do you want? What can I do for you?' Have you asked him that? (Devotee - No, I have not) See, not once you have asked him, 'Papa, what do you want? What can I do for you?' Now go and ask him this? Do you know why people create chaos? It is because they feel insecure. They do not feel loved. They often think, I do so much for my wife and children by sacrificing my whole life for them from morning till evening, yet they do not care for me.' This feeling takes a deep hold in their heart. In their entire life, they did not get many chances to go places and see things around. They dedicated all of their life to the welfare of their wife and children. So when they do not get any love and respect in return, they become angry. When no one listens to them and they do not get get respect then the anger increases. Though they themselves do not behave in a manner to get respect yet they do not understand this. Is this not what the issue really is?

(Devotee - Yes Gurudev) His behavior is not such that you can give him respect, but does he understand this? So what you need to do is, you need to go and ask him when he is in a good mood, 'Papa what do you want? What can I do for you?' See, no one is in an angry mood all the time. People do have good moods. When they are in a good mood then you can communicate.