How to get rid of my tendency to control everything everywhere and every time?

Question - Gurudev, how to get rid of my tendency to control everything everywhere and every time?

Gurudev Sri Sri - You can control small things, that is why you have this illusion (that you are in control). Just try to control the big things, stop the war in Iraq, or stop the war in Syria. A couple came to meet me and they were talking. The husband said, 'My wife decides all the small things and I decide all the big things. Like my wife decides what car to buy, what color the house must be painted, where we should go for holiday, how we should spend our money and all these small things. I don't interfere in her work and I do the big things. I think about how to stop the war in Iraq, who should be the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom, and how the nations should interact with each other, etc, and she never interferes in these matters, so we have peace at home' (laughter). Like that if you want to have control, think about the bigger things. How you can control the weather or bring rain. If you are a control freak, you should control those things. Think about something like that.