How to accept a person or a spouse as they are?

Question - Gurudev, how to accept a person or a spouse as they are?

Gurudev Sri Sri - I have no experience in this. This is where Vedanta comes into the practical side of life. You will see the whole past is gone, it is like a dream, finished. At least now, be enthusiastic. It is up to you to create enthusiasm every moment in your life. How can you do it? You can't do it if you are holding onto the past. You must simply kick the past. Let go of it. Okay, yesterday they made a mistake, never mind. Some pleasant things happen, some unpleasant things happen, some good things happen, some bad things happen. Throw them all. Right now, your job is to create positive energy and enthusiasm in the atmosphere, and see that there is more love in the family. Can we all do this? This is living in wisdom. Once in six months or a year, if you want to complain, sit and complain for an hour and then forget about it. But don't do it every day. I don't ask you to be goody goody things all the time. Life is a combination of everything, sometimes fights, anger, and joy. Life should have multi-colors, you should have all colors in life, no need to have one uniform. However, you should be able to snap out of all this little flickering of the mind, and this knowledge will help youEveryday wake up and say, 'Shivoham, I am the consciousness, pure and beautiful. So, today, take this beautiful message with you, 'Everything is nothing', it is all dream. There are two things. One is shravana, which means listening. The other is manana, which means bringing the knowledge to your mind, your conscious attention a few times. Both are important and will help a lot.